Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano

Champagne & Dessert Welcome Celebration

Casa Romantica Cultural Center and Gardens

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Our Wedding

Our story began with a simple swipe that turned into something special.&nbsp;From our first brunch in West Hollywood in 2021 (masks and all) to long walks in the Palisades Park, where Mat would later propose, our story has been full of laughter, love, and a few perfectly shaken martinis. Mat is our calm and steady captain, and Shelley is our creative hostess of the mostest and chef extraordinaire. We bring warmth and fun to each other’s lives. Together, we love traveling—whether it’s Rio, Argentina, or a quick escape to Los Olivos—discovering new restaurants (and returning to favorites like R&amp;D), and strolling along beach piers wherever we find them. We’ve built a full life of laughter, love, and adventure. We can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter with our family and friends!

Our Story

Photos

Wedding Party

We are so grateful to all of our guests traveling from near and far—whether from across the U.S. or around the world. Your presence means the world to us, and we can’t wait to celebrate together!

Accommodations 

We’ll be staying here and would love for you to join us! We've reserved a block of rooms with a discounted rate for Friday, April 17th - Sunday, April 19th. Please use this link to <a href="https://www.marriott.com/event-reservations/reservation-link.mi?id=1759351541156&amp;key=GRP&amp;app=resvlink" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Book your group rate for Diefenbach Wedding Room Block</a>. A beautiful, historic-inspired hotel in the heart of San Juan Capistrano, just 15 minutes from Casa Romantica—perfectly convenient for all the wedding festivities.

Inn at the Mission San Juan Capistrano, Autograph Collection

A comfortable, budget-friendly option with a pool and convenient location close to the beach and Casa Romantica.

Casablanca Inn

A modern boutique hotel 10 minutes from Casa Romantica, offering stylish rooms and easy access to San Clemente’s beaches and downtown.

El Caminante Bar & Bungalows

Perched on a bluff overlooking the ocean, this luxury resort offers stunning views and world-class amenities.

The Ritz-Carlton, Laguna Niguel

Airbnb & Vacation Rentals

There are plenty of great Airbnb and vacation rental options in San Clemente and the surrounding area for guests who prefer more space or a home-like stay.

Flights

AirportsFor our wedding in San Clemente, California, the two main airports to consider are Los Angeles International (LAX) and John Wayne Airport (SNA). John Wayne Airport (SNA) is about 20–25 minutes from San Clemente and is the closest and most convenient option for domestic travelers. Los Angeles International (LAX) is about 1.5–2 hours away, depending on traffic, and is best for international guests or those seeking more flight options.

Travel

Resort Cocktail Attire

We invite guests to dress in resort cocktail attire—elevated yet relaxed. Think polished vacation style with light fabrics, vibrant colors, and breezy silhouettes. 🌸 For WomenDresses in airy fabrics like linen, cotton, silk, or chiffon. Colorful prints, florals, and bright tones are encouraged. Pair with dressy sandals, wedges, or heels. 🌴 For MenLinen or lightweight button-down shirts paired with chinos or tailored trousers. Jackets are optional, and loafers or dressy sneakers work well. ✨ Overall vibe: relaxed elegance with a tropical, celebratory feel.

Formal Attire

Dress Code: Formal — Pastels &amp; Florals Encouraged We invite guests to dress in formal attire for our celebration. Soft colors, pastels, and floral prints are especially encouraged to complement our wedding colors and Spring season. 🌷 For WomenFloor-length gowns and dresses in light, romantic fabrics such as chiffon, silk, or satin. Dressy heels, sandals, or refined flats are perfect. Kindly avoid wearing white. 🤵🏻‍♂️ For MenSuits or tuxedos with a dress shirt and tie. Lighter suit colors like gray, blue, or tan are wonderful choices, and pastel or floral accents are welcome.

Dress Code

Here are some local activities to help you make the most of your time in San Clemente.

Known as the “Jewel of the Missions,” this historic landmark dates back to 1776. Visitors can stroll through beautiful gardens, explore centuries-old architecture, and learn about California’s Spanish and Native American heritage.

Mission San Juan Capistrano

California’s oldest neighborhood, featuring quaint shops, cafés, and historic homes just across from the Mission.

Los Rios Street Historic District

A quintessential SoCal experience with sweeping ocean views, seaside dining, and a scenic walking path along the coast.

San Clemente Pier & Beach Trail

Stroll this charming street lined with boutiques, cafés, and restaurants, perfect for shopping or a casual bite.

Downtown San Clemente

About 25 minutes northA vibrant seaside town known for its art galleries, tide pools, and beautiful coves.

Laguna Beach, California

About 40 minutes northShelley’s hometown! A classic Orange County destination with sandy beaches, harbor cruises, and the famous Balboa Island.

Newport Beach

Things to Do

San Juan Capistrano

<a href="http://eladobedecapistrano.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">El Adobe</a>A historic Mexican restaurant in the heart of San Juan Capistrano, famous for its margaritas, classic dishes, and charming old-world atmosphere.

<a href="https://www.trevorsatthetracks.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Trevor’s at The Tracks</a>Located in a historic 1894 train depot, this restaurant serves globally inspired American cuisine with a relaxing courtyard patio.

<a href="https://rosewoodsocial.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Rosewood Social</a>A chic spot offering craft cocktails and a menu of globally inspired dishes, perfect for a stylish evening out.

<a href="https://www.bloomsanjuancapistrano.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Bloom Restaurant + Bar</a>Wine country-inspired cuisine in a stylish setting, offering an extensive wine list and craft cocktails.

<a href="https://www.mayfieldoc.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Mayfield</a>A stylish restaurant and bar serving seasonal California fare with a Mediterranean twist—perfect for a relaxed meal or a fun night out.

<a href="https://www.ramoshouse.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Ramos House Café</a>A cozy spot right by the train tracks. They serve an à la carte Monday–Friday and weekend they’re all about indulgent farm-to-table brunch in a rustic, laid-back setting.

<a href="https://theteahouseonlosrios.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Tea House on Los Rios</a>A beautifully restored 1911 cottage offering a serene high tea experience with scones, finger sandwiches, and loose-leaf teas. Perfect for brunch or lunch.

San Clemente

<a href="https://nicksrestaurants.com/nicks/san-clemente/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Nick’s San Clemente</a>Modern American cuisine with an upscale yet relaxed atmosphere, known for its impeccable service and menu that blends traditional and contemporary flavors. The butter cake for dessert is a must!

<a href="https://nicksrestaurants.com/southofnicks/san-clemente/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">South of Nick’s</a>Offers a SoCal twist on classic Mexican dishes in a vibrant setting, perfect for a lively evening out.

<a href="https://www.beachfire.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Beach Fire</a>Offers a lively atmosphere with vibrant local art and a menu inspired by the coastal lifestyle, featuring award-winning food and live entertainment.

<a href="https://raresociety.com/san-clemente" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Rare Society</a>A modern steakhouse with a stylish ambiance, offering dry-aged steaks and craft cocktails for a special night out.

<a href="https://www.brusselsbistro.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Brussels Bistro</a>A cozy Belgian and French bistro offering authentic cuisine in a European-inspired setting. Known for mussels with Belgian fries, boeuf bourguignon, and an extensive Belgian beer selection, it’s perfect for a relaxed yet special dining experience.

<a href="https://thecellarsite.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Cellar</a>New American eatery and wine bar with microbrews on tap, outdoor dining and onsite cheese shop.

<a href="https://www.bar-jane.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Jane</a>An intimate, neighborhood cocktail bar serving only the finest beverages in the most classy of settings. With pieces gathered from around the world.

Shelley & Matheus

Shelley & Matheus

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